The Road From Madness - Sound Advice For The Love-Sick Male

As I write this I am a 55 year old man. I have been a fool all my life. I have lost count of all the times I have let a woman make a fool of me. A few years ago I said “Enough!”. I don't care what people say, if I am out of control, this can’t be a good thing. Love, or at least being in love, is not some romantic, noble state, it’s The Madness!

But there are techniques we men can use to fight back and this short article will show you how I have learnt to do it. I learned this simple system from the school of hard knocks, many, many bitter, painful hard knocks. I attempted suicide twice.

You are far, far more fortunate than I. You are learning this same system for free. Some people just have to learn the hard way, by their own mistakes. Other lucky folk, like you, get offered a much easier, less painful route. You have the chance to learn from someone else’s mistakes, mine. And the gods know I made enough.

Sooner or later we all find ourselves thinking the same old crap “how can I win Mary’s heart?”, “how can I make her love me?”, "I love her so much, can't go on without her", all that old bollocks.  But these are the wrong questions, the wrong thoughts. It’s simply the wrong way of thinking! If Mary, or whatever her mane is this time,  is so stupid and shallow that she can’t realise what a great catch I am, to hell with her!   Women are so bloody arrogant anyway, they all think we need them more that they need us.  And every time we beg, plead and offer them the earth we are reinforcing their delusion.

The question we should be asking is “How can I move away from this ridiculous, self defeating situation and find a place of peace, a place of strength? How can I find happiness and fulfilment without Mary.  Now we are beginning to think in the right way. I am not going to pad this out, why should I? I am going to get straight to the good stuff now.  You want to get laid don't you?  Its far better than turning yourself into some pathetic love sick puppy!

Whatever we repeatedly, habitually think, we will attract into our lives. The more you tell yourself you are in love with Mary, the more in love with Mary you will become. The more trapped you will become.  On the other hand, the more you tell yourself that happiness is within you, that it is not dependant on anyone else or what they think, the more that will become true for you.  Anything you focus your mind upon you can attract into your life, except a specific named person.  It is also true that any question you sincerely ask your subconscious mind, will sooner or later be answered by your subconscious mind. You need to be open and receptive to the answer when it comes. So ask yourself questions like “How can I move away from this ridiculous, self defeating situation and find a place of peace? How can I find happiness and fulfilment without Mary?  Now you are asking the right questions!

If you really must have a lover, and its always great to have a lover ON OUR OWN TERMS, then ask yourself questions such as "How can I attract a fun loving girl into my life, someone who will love me for my better qualities and stay as long as I want her to, but only as long as I want her to".  Or simply "How can I get laid tonight and put all this nonsense about Mary behind me?"

You can programme you subconscious mind to take you wherever you want to go in life, just as an airline pilot programmes his onboard computer.  You can do this with simple questions and affirmations or you can make the process even more powerful by focusing on a strong visualisation of what it is that you want.

Don’t make it hard, It really is very easy. So practice being in control of your own thoughts. Learn meditation if you are drawn that way. Its your mind, use it to create the things you want to experience in your life. If you focus on the bad things, you will attract bad things. If you focus on the good things in life, you will attract the good things in life. It really is that easy. So why make it hard?

Just like wolves or any over species of social, pack animals, there are only two types of men, the Alpha Males and the Beta Males.  Beta Males are the underdogs and the bitches know it.  They hardly ever mate with beta males, they would much rather give themselves to the alpha male.

The difference with we humans is that we are the only species who can lie.  Yes we can lie about our status, we can pretend to be an alpha male.  And do you know what?  If we keep up the pretence long enough we actually BECOME an alpha male.  What about that?  I leant how to do that by a brilliant guy who as been there, done that and got the T-shirt.  John Alexander started out just like you and me, a pathetic love sick puppy.  Now he has women virtually begging him for it.  You too can learn his method.  Find out more: http://www.youngmansmanual.com/John.htm   Its not just about getting more sex, you can build brilliant, long term relationships this way too - on your own terms.  

You will also find a lot of great stuff by dating guru Mike Pilinski on his website: http://www.youngmansmanual.com/Mike.htm 

Have a great life, you deserve it!

Jack Cox