The Magic of Making Up
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Relationships are fragile bonds that need to be built up and
maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish.
Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and
frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be
thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really the best step
to take? One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your
ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also
repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to
her. So here are five tips to get back at your ex, or better still, for
getting her back alltogether. |
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1) Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies
very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop begging,
clinging or exhibiting the behaviour of someone who is feeling desperate. Let
your ex think that you have moved on just fine without her by acting strong and
moving on. When she thinks you have moved on, your ex may well realize that she
still needs you. |
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2) Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication
may appear counterintuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but
it is one of the most important steps when
getting
back at your ex. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let
her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow her to clear
her mind and realise how valuable your relationship was to her. |
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3) Be flexible. Do not be forceful with her, demanding that
she move out, or pick her things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a
listener and a sympathiser. She will be surprised when she sees this side of
you, and it may inspire her to build the lines of communication that were
lacking when the breakup came into play. |
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Men Are From Mars,
Women Are From Venus
How to Get What You Want in Your Relationships
by John Gray |
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4) Get out more! This is no time for you to be alone. Call
your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some
entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay
attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying
your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it
will also help convince your ex that she lost a gem. |
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The Attractor Factor:
5 Easy Steps for Creating Wealth
(or Anything Else)
from the Inside Out
by Joe Vitale |
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5) Simply be yourself. She had a really good reason for
dating you in the first place, so go back to being yourself and just let your ex
remember why she loved you. This renewed selfperception of your own self will
surely rub off on your ex as well. |
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For more advice on how to get your ex back I recommend the
magic of making up. Good luck. |
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