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Life is hard for young men these days because society no longer teaches them how to be men.  Indeed we seems to have forgotten what being a man really means.  We are so surrounded by sexism / feminism these days that we forget what our place in the world really is, what it always was and what it always will be.  My father always sat at the head of the table because we all knew he was the head of the household.  My mother never challenged his authority and we kids didn't either.  Not while we were still children anyway.

This attitude of respect for the dominant male in no way diminished our respect for our mother.  This has nothing to do with putting women down as the sexist / feminist brigade would have us believe.  Make no mistake, feminism is the worst form of sexism.  Even its name is sexist!  I am all for equal rights for everyone, regardless or gender, race, religion or anything else.  But feminists don't want equal rights, they just want more and more and more rights and unfair privileges for women, and that my friend is sexism at its most ugly!  Feminism is a cancer and we men need some tools and techniques with which to fight back.  That is what this website is all about.

Young boys have a huge disadvantage.  For a start they spend their first four or five years almost exclusively in the company of women.  They learn their first attitudes and beliefs from their mothers and female friends of their mothers.  This is the most venerable, most impressionable time of a young boys life and he is being systematically abused by his own mother and her friends.  They fill his tiny unformed mind with all kinds of feminist rubbish, and the poor little chap soaks it all up.  This doesn't just happen when they speak to him and teach him things.  It goes in subliminally as he hears these women chatting amongst themselves.  He is not paying attention to them.  He is just innocently playing with his toys, and absorbing all this misinformation subliminally.

Then he starts school.  For the first few years most of his teachers are likely to be women because women seem to be more drawn to teaching young children.  As he gets older he will encounter more male teachers but even these men are likely to be feminists.  It is an unfortunate fact that in the modern world, most male teachers have heavy feminist leanings.  When I was a boy most of our teachers were men and real men at that. They were called 'school masters', they ruled with an iron hand, they commanded respect by their speech, their body language, by everything they said and did. They were a great roll model for us. These days real men seldom choose a teaching career.  I don't know whether they are weeded out by the feminist / leftist regime in most schools, or whether such a regime puts them off applying to enter the profession in the first place.  Maybe the teacher training process is designed in such a way as to instil sexist values.  

Whatever the reason, our boys are being disadvantaged by modern school education. Just look and the examination results.  Girls now tend to do better than boys in exams and they tend to leave school better qualified.  Why?  Because they are brighter?  I don't hardly think so, do you?  It is because they are given all the advantages, all the encouragement, while they boys are fed so much feminist nonsense they don't even know who they are any more. It is not until boys leave school, enter the workplace, and start mixing with men, real men, that they can even begin to start to wake up to what's going on. And by then its too late.

Yet the feminist propaganda does not end when they leave school. Another profession which is now dominated by females is advertising and they are not being slow to use all the underhanded methods they can to promote their foul agendas.  Just look at some of the TV adverts.  I am quoting British examples but wherever you live in the world you will see the same sort of crap (except maybe in Muslim countries).  

One I particularly loath is where a woman, with a really over the top, stupid artificial smile (presumably intended to convey confidence) is sitting in the kitchen, talking on the telephone.  I think she is supposed to be getting a loan or insurance or something like that.  A stream of kids walk in, one after the other, and ask her where things are.  She knows the exact location of every item and joyfully tells each child where to look, still wearing the same ridiculous smile, without even having to interrupt her telephone conversation.  Then, to add insult to injury, her husband walks in, asks where something is, and is answered with the same off hand efficiency as were the kids.  This advert has nothing to do with selling insurance or loans or whatever.  It is blatant propaganda designed to propagate the false belief that the woman is the head of the family and her husband has the same status as one of her kids..

Another one that gets right up my nose is run by British Telecom (BT).  This has been a long running series now, featuring an artificially confident, dominant and very obnoxious woman, her kids and the weak willed male she has conned into her life.  The poor guy lets them all into his house, out of the goodness of his heart, because he loves this woman.  First she cons him into opening a joint bank account against his better judgment.  Then the kids run amuck in his house and show him no respect.  No, that's not true, they show him active disrespect, in fact they openly despise him.  Anyway the series goes on and on an on in this vein.  The remarkable thing is not the story itself but the spin that is put on it.  Rather than show the women and her kids in their true light as being the villains, it is twisted to make them look good and make him look silly.

All this stuff is very worrying.  Society is going to the dogs and the male role in society is being eroded.  If it goes on like this, where will we be in 200 years?  It reminds me of a very early Star Trek episode where the women had become dominant.  It was an environmentally challenged planet and the women had all moved underground, built a wonderfully civilised society but without men.  The men lived brutish lives on the planet's surface, deprived an education and only taken below ground to breed.  The women controlled the men with devices like cattle prods.  The men referred to women as "the givers of pleasure and pain".   Maybe the key to success of the early Star Trek programmes was that they were allegorical.  Each episode was really telling a story about an aspect of our own present day Earth society, usually with a warning.  Will we head the warning about "the givers of pleasure and pain"?

So lets fight back while we still can. Women have the advantage by controlling our early minds but we can control our own adult minds.  We have total control over what we think and what we believe now.  By not being so eager to please women, and not being so eager to jump into bed with them at any price, we can regain control.  All  it takes is a shift in our attitudes.  This website will give you fresh ideas to consider, and great tools to control our own thoughts and beliefs.

We men can have everything we want, on our own terms.  I just said we shouldn't be so eager to jump into bed with women at any price.  That's true but we can still get lots of nookie on own own terms.  So to leave you happy and upbeat, take a look at these: http://www.youngmansmanual.com/John.htm  and http://www.youngmansmanual.com/Mike.htm 

Have a great life, you deserve it!

Jack Cox